This is sooooooo me.
This is sooooooo me.
These 242 thoughts are daily reminders to help you align with your true self and cultivate a wise, pragmatic relationship with food and your body.
How do you relate to food? As a lover, a friend, a god, an
enemy, a source of nutrition? What is your image of yourself in
relationship to food? What are the thoughts and self-images that
mediate between you and food? When you remove all of the
thoughts and images that mediate between you and food, what’s
left? Just a simple, pragmatic relationship with food.
Food Matrix of Pleasure/Comfort Foods
Physically & Emotionally
|Food made with sugar and/or chocolate such as:||Salty fried foods:|
|Bakery goods||Potato chips|
|Ice cream||French fries|
|Salty fatty foods:|
|Nuts and nut butters|
|Fatty starchy foods:|
The First Step: Wise Thinking is my all time favorite because it was the piece of the puzzle that I had been missing for thirty-five years. If you truly want to heal your food and weight issues, Wise Thinking is the opportunity you’ve been waiting for. If you don’t address it, chances are you’ll keep yo-yoing and never heal permanently.
To fully embrace it means creating an entirely new, healthy mental relationship with food. Fasten your seatbelt and get ready to heal!
In this chapter you’ll learn how to think differently about food and, hopefully, think very little about it, if at all, when it’s not time to eat. You’ll do this by busting through your food illusion and coming to see the truth, the whole picture about food.
Once you see the truth, there’s no going back. You’ll learn helpful strategies to stop wearing a path to the fridge, such as recognizing when the Pleasure Seeking Child is on the scene and learning to ignore her, speaking and living from your heart, connecting with a life purpose that feels engaging and fulfilling, feeding your soul rather than overfilling your stomach, and implementing kung fu for cravings and emotional eating. Without further ado, let’s begin!
Let me start out by saying that I am having a hard time making this entry. I can write fiction without worry but to write about my daily life is an entirely different situation.
If I think about it can get embarrassing… so I guess it’s better to not think about it and just write.
The day after I work is difficult for me. I am so tired from staying up all night and then only averaging 3 – 4 hours of sleep before I must get up. In a perfect world, I would be able to sleep as long as I needed but the world isn’t perfect – at least not for me.
Beep Beep Beep
Ugh my alarm goes off and in my zombie-like state I fumble around looking for my clothes and head over to the door.
I am now inundated by the brightest light ever and I curse myself for not grabbing my sunglasses earlier. I should have known better but zombies don’t think and just react, right?
I leave and it takes me a good 2 hours before I am fully functional and feel human again. At least an awake human. 🙂
Days like these makes it hard to workout. I have no energy, or motivation for that matter, to do anything. I’ve had done it before but it takes a certain mindset. A mindset that I won’t be able to have until I’ve been consistently working out for several weeks.
Soon I will get into this mindset.
These 242 thoughts are daily reminders to help you align with your true self and cultivate a wise, pragmatic relationship with food and your body.
There’s a way of thinking about food that’s a problem, and a
way of thinking about it that isn’t a problem, and the
problematic way corresponds to feeling out of control around
food and to having a heavier body. Your relationship with food,
which is based on how you think about it, makes all the
difference. You have different relationships with your mother,
your brother, your friend, your boss, and your lover, and you
think about all of those people differently. In the same way, you
have an easy or challenging relationship with food, depending
on the way you habitually think about it.
“I had enough.”
“Enough is enough.”
“It’s time to get serious.”
“I will start on Monday”
These and a few more sentences were uttered by yours truly since the beginning of Jan. I had planned on starting when The Camp offered the new challenge but here I am on week 3 and have still yet to get serious and consistent about with my workouts and eating.
I have many excuses and reasons why. Some are good and some aren’t but in the end, they don’t matter because I am still not eating well or working out. 😦
I am done… Basta!
I am writing it down this time. NO more talking It’s time for action and being held accountable.
I am stronger than this…
Another year is here
Resolutions are being made
Will they stay or will they fade
Will I change my mind once more
Or be the same as it was before?
Can I really hold my will
Hold it tight and hold it still?
Will it last the year through
And make the change I want it to?
The choice is mine it’s up to me
I decide what I want to do
I couldn’t have said this better.
two thousand and sixteen has been a challenging year for so many of us. Obviously there has been a shift in The Universe’s energy or something ‘out there’ but I’m not here to speculate on that.
This year has seen so many ‘greats’ of our lifetime die. Carrie Fisher, George Michael, Prince, David Bowie and more. This year many family members and friends, our very own ‘greats’, have also left this earth. I’ve seen myself at six funerals this year… Most of them cancer related. Most too young to be gone already.
A year like two thousand and sixteen makes us reflect on life and death. It makes us realise that people can never die when they leave behind so much of themselves for us to remember. Their memories, their life walk beside us, every day, in our thoughts and in our hearts until we are face to face again. And we will…
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Remember, the mistakes you made yesterday are helping you make the right decisions today that will pave your road to a better tomorrow.
By chance or luck or divine intervention I landed on this site and for some unknown reason I am feeling a strong pull to do this.
What is YearCompass?
An accountability partner is a person who coaches another person in terms of helping the other person keep a commitment
Ever since I won the 6-week challenge where I had to lose 20 pounds in 42 days I’ve been having a hard time staying consistent with my exercise and meals. I knew one of the reasons I could lose 22.4 pounds in those 42 days was because money was on the line. If I didn’t win the challenge I would lose my $497.00 deposit. There was no way I was going to allow that. I was determined and while it was hard –very hard—at times I still was focused on my goal.
So now with no prospect of winning my money back I am left on my own accord. At first I thought I could do it on my own but I am seeing that that this isn’t working. I am failing and it’s quickly showing. 😦
But not anymore. Last week John and I decided to be Accountability Partners. He has seen me struggling. Being unmotivated, unfocused and, to put it simply, drifting away because I have no daily structure or goals.
“A significant predictor of whether people are going to stay on an exercise program is if they have a friend (either an individual or group) who works out with them. Getting people connected to each other is critical.”
We are social animals by nature, and if we promise someone we will meet them at the gym, we feel really guilty if we do not keep our promise. Research shows that having an accountability partner or exercise buddy can be highly effective at ensuring we will actually workout, not just talk about it.
Dr. Robert Cialdini is a well-known social psychologist, who has written a great deal about “social influence” and decision-making. His studies show that
“It turns out this peer pressure thing, when you turn up the “accountability” knob, is a motivator for a lot more than losing a few pounds. Compared to mentorship—a more hierarchical relationship—a peer to peer relationship seems to be easier to organize, and it is a more effective tool for making progress towards a goal. Accountability partnerships work when they are a collaboration between two colleagues who like and respect one another—your partner is someone you trust, who will keep you honest and moving on a path you set for yourself.”
Setting up an accountability partnership is simple:
This how we are going to achieve our goals.
Now we just need a name. Any ideas?
Three days ago, I was cleaning up an old Gmail account, one that I used when I was in my vegetarian phase, and I saw a series of emails from Laura Katleman-Prue.
The emails consisted of a 91 Day Skinny Thinking Challenge. I had forgotten about signing up for the challenge, over two years ago! LOL
I think it will be good and fun for me to do this and I am going to start today. Yes, today because truly Christmas day is just another holiday.
Freedom Is Possible
Yes, it is possible to be free from obsession with food and body
weight! It is possible to live without worrying about what you will
eat next, whether it will make you fat, or whether you’ll have the
willpower to eat in a way that keeps you from busting out of your jeans.
The subject of this workbook is seeing the whole truth about food
and what’s been going on in your relationship with it. No matter
how long you’ve been struggling with food, you don’t have to take
your eating, weight, and body image issues to your grave. You can
free yourself of them for good. All you have to do is follow the
Five Steps by incorporating the daily five-minute exercises into
your daily routine. How hard is it to find an extra five minutes a
day? Aren’t you worth it? You can do this!
What can you expect over the next 91 Days?
You will be receiving daily emails with your Five Minute Freedom
Exercises inside. These exercises will help you stay on track and
progress throughout the 91 Days of the Skinny Thinking Challenge.
Article from MSN.com
Good news: You won’t die the first time you step back in a gym.
Your day is packed with meetings, parent-teacher conferences, coffee dates, date dates, and binge-watching the latest series to drop on Netflix. Suddenly, Cortana says it’s time to snag some shut-eye and you haven’t made it to the gym. Again.
But is skipping the gym – for days in a row – really that big of a deal? Here’s what the pros have to say about falling off the fitness wagon for a month (or more), and whether it has that drastic of an effect on your health.
1. Your heart ticks differently.
“After four days of zero aerobic exercise, your heart becomes less efficient, so you may notice shortness of breath sooner,” says Michele Olson, Ph.D., professor of exercise science and lead researcher at Auburn University Montgomery’s Scharff-Olson Kinesiology Lab. Too busy to hit spin class? Counteract this by incorporating more activity into your everyday tasks, Olson suggests. “Walk as much as you can, with your pets or up and down the stairs, and clean like a boss. You don’t even need to leave your house because you have a built-in home gym if you try to be a neat freak,” she says.
2. Your muscles get a little lazy.
Muscle cells generally keep their strength for seven to 14 days, Olson says, which means you have about one to two weeks of wiggle room before you really start to lose any progress you made. That said, you don’t have to worry too much: Spanish researchers found that the average person maintains a relatively constant amount of strength despite four weeks of inactivity. Your muscles may not fire as energetically as they would had you not taken a timeout (so those 10-pound dumbbells may feel a little heavier than they did last month), but you won’t be starting off at square one when you come back from your month-long hiatus.
3. The skills you worked hardest for disappear.
“As a general rule, the fitness activities that take the most effort to master and maintain will be the first things to go when you ease up,” says Mark Schneider, a personal trainer at Movement Minneapolis. On the contrary, for something that comes naturally, it usually takes more then 30 days to recognize a difference. So if you’re able to run a 5K with no sweat, try busting out those miles again to ease yourself back into a routine. If you struggled to complete a push-up before, it’s likely it’ll happen again – so save that for later when you’re feeling confident again.
4. Your motivation starts to wane.
While it’s likely that your body will change – at least a little bit – during a month-long hiatus, the real concern is how your motivation will be affected, says Schneider. Generally, the longer you skip out on your workouts, the more difficult it becomes to feel inspired to get back in there. To counteract it, don’t force yourself to go 110 percent as soon as you step in front of those free weights. Instead, “start by doing about 70 percent of what you had been doing before your break, both in time and intensity,” Olson says. And if you took a break because you couldn’t imagine slogging away for one more mile on the treadmill, she suggests trying something new to infuse some excitement back into your routine. You’ll probably experience some soreness either way, but “it shouldn’t take longer than two weeks to adapt again,” says Schneider. “As long as it’s not painful, take that as a sign that you’re coming alive again.”
5. Your body will crave some type of movement.
Between high-intensity interval training (HIIT) and speedy circuit work, there’s no longer a need to spend hours in the gym in order to score health benefits – this is a concept that still holds true even if you saw your manicurist more often than your trainer the last few weeks. In fact, if you were fairly fit before your break, establishing a streamlined workout schedule may be all you need to maintain your endurance base for several months, which is pretty much perfect if you’re still struggling to squeeze it all in. So cut your usual exercise time by two-thirds while maintaining the same intensity level as before – research shows that if you do, you won’t feel much of a decline in your VO2 max (how much oxygen your body needs to perform a function). That way when you are ready to get back to it with full-force, you won’t be backtracking because you won’t have lost anything.
What is your relationship with food?
How do you relate to food?
As a lover, a friend, a god, an enemy, a source of nutrition? What is your image of yourself in relationship to food? What are the thoughts and self-images that mediate between you and food? When you remove all of the thoughts and images that mediate between you and food, what’s left? Just a simple, pragmatic relationship with food. That is the goal of Skinny Thinking: to help you develop a simple, pragmatic relationship with food.
This book is not about formulating a newfangled eating or exercise plan that will deliver the perfect body to please the ego, like so many other diet books are. It is about forming a new, rational relationship with food, weight, and your body that is free from past suffering and worries. The good news is that Getting Skinny with Skinny Thinking is not a new fad or trend. If you put the Five Steps that you will soon learn into practice, you will keep your healthy, thinner body permanently and end the yo-yoing forever.
Today my plan was to go and exercise at noon and then take the core class at 1 pm but those plans went south, way south, when I ended up falling asleep on the couch at 11:15 am and didn’t wake up until 1:15 p.m.
I slept for two hours!
It doesn’t surprise me given the work schedule I’ve had for the last week and half and how on Thursday I didn’t go to sleep until past midnight because I had friends over.
Oh well, at least I felt rested when I woke up.
Now, in the past I would have not gone at all, but not now, now I have a different mindset and I went to my gym at 5 pm.
I had a great workout and left the gym swimming in endorphins.
I was a happy girl.
I knew I wasn’t going to be able to work out today since I was going to be sleeping for half the day and then, once I got up, I had to finish getting the house ready for friends to come over for dinner.
I’ve been looking forward to having the kind of fun that only good friends can bring.
We decided to have a vegetarian dinner since one of our friends is returning to that lifestyle. I was excited about it because long ago, I was a vegetarian – a lacto-ovo vegetarian to be exact.
While preparing this meal, it made me realize that I missed being a veggie girl. I am not sure why and it’s probably something I should think about soon but for now I let my veggie heart rejoice.
Our dinner consisted of broccoli salad with cashews and raisins, Quinoa salad with veggies, and a medley of shaved Brussels sprouts with smoked gouda and wild rice with apples and cranberries and almonds and a small sweet potato. We had plenty of wine that flowed in conjunction with the deep conversations we were having.
I really enjoyed listening to everyone’s view points. Some I agreed with and some I didn’t but what I loved most is that it made me think and ponder on how I could apply it to my life. How can I enrich my life even further?
As the evening turned into night we shared a cheesecake with mango slices. It was delicious.
It was just what I needed and I didn’t care that it was close to midnight when my head hit the pillow.